When You’re Not Ready To Date

When You’re Not Ready To Date

I’ve been separated and divorced for 1 1/2 years now. When I first got out (sounds like I was released from prison, right? Well, I was!) I naturally took a break. I was mourning my friends’ murder, healing from a brain aneurysm while patiently waiting for...
What Is A Hoe?

What Is A Hoe?

Expanded excerpt from the best-selling book, From Ivy League To Stripper Life: 10 Lessons Learned From rap to rock, mansions to projects, women and girls are continuously referred to as sluts and hoes. The words roll off the tongue of both men and women, young and...
Slut Shaming And Moving Beyond Labels

Slut Shaming And Moving Beyond Labels

[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68kmBoUru-k] Walk Of No Shame with Amber Rose from Funny Or Die via “Slut Shaming” and Moving Beyond Labels Viewpoint from a man… I saw the light. It shone brightly yesterday afternoon. Even though I had always been...

To My Abusers: “Your words will disappear.”

If you’re a Game of Thrones cult member, you’re already familiar with the quote; quite possibly the best mic drop of the series. Well, I say that as a woman but also as a sexual and domestic abuse survivor. Game of Thrones is a HBO series set in medieval...